The only way to introduce this print interview is by the authors own words:
Unlike the hierarchical Catholic Church, evangelical churches often
function independently. But their influence is widespread—as Stanley
points out, Wayne Grudem, an evangelical theologian at Phoenix Seminary,
once described Sovereign Grace Ministries “as an example of the way
churches ought to work.”
In response to the Washingtonian investigation, executive director of Sovereign Grace Churches Mark Prater pointed TIME to a lengthy statement he made in 2014
denying that Sovereign Grace leaders “conspired to cover up” sexual
abuse. “Yes, we have been the target of misinformed critique in both the
secular and Christian media, and more will likely come,” he stated. “I
pray that God gives us all grace to respond wisely and biblically. But
regardless of the public discourse, we are strongly committed to
ensuring a safe environment for the children in our churches.”
In a statement to TIME, Mark Mitchell, the executive pastor of
Covenant Life Church, said that along with the broader educational
community the church had learned much over the last few decades about
how to respond to reports of abuse and care for victims and families.
“Our interaction with civil authorities has been instrumental in shaping
our policies and procedures for the protection and care of children.
When a pastor, staff member or volunteer has reason to believe a child
is the victim of abuse or neglect, our policy requires those individuals
to report it immediately to civil authorities,” he said. “Every Sunday,
hundreds of families participate in our church services and entrust
their children to the care of our staff and volunteers. We will continue
to work hard to ensure our church is a place of safety for children and
a place of healing for victims.”
The point that, over the course of the past few years, has been driven home by the numerous postings made by this blog. Sexual abuse is not just a Catholic problem:
The Catholic Church has been taken to task over abuse for decades
now. Evangelical ministries are now facing their own abuse crises. In
the media, we’re hearing more about these stories. Some of these
allegations confront abuse that is decades old. From just the past year,
I’m thinking of reports about Josh Duggar of 19 Kids and Counting and Bill Gothard, a Christian homeschooling advocate. I’m also thinking about Buzzfeed’s recent story on Jesus People USA [posted here] and Kiera Feldman’s 2012 investigation of abuse in a Tulsa megachurch. (Of course, other religions are not immune from sexual abuse scandals either.)
The sad reality is that sexual abuse is widespread everywhere, not
just in religious communities. The statistics I saw were one-in-four
girls and one-in-six boys will be sexually abused before the age of 18.
The experts I spoke to didn’t say these statistics are worse in
evangelical churches, but they did say that abusers could prey on
trusting religious communities, which give them access to children.
That’s why churches need policies in place to protect children and
handle abuse when it happens. That means reporting suspected abuse to
authorities immediately, instead of handling it internally. Abuse is a
sin, but it’s also a serious crime.
A final point that caught my attention revolves around what Dias refers to as "sexual ethic" centering around the book
I Kissed Dating Goodbye by Joshua Harris. The conclusions made by Stanley (the author of the preceding piece) mirror my initial thoughts concerning the Bill Gothard/Josh Duggar debacle.
I can’t speak to all of evangelicalism, but I can say there are
troubling messages sent to sex-abuse survivors in church cultures that
prize abstinence until heterosexual marriage. What does a young girl
make of her “purity” if her father molests her? What does a young boy
think if a male church member sexually assaults him? Churches that
advocate a conservative sexual ethic should address those messages.
Does this kind of circumscribed sexual environment give way to more
sexual abuse? Some people I talked to say, yes, this is repression and
it leads to abuse and acting out sexually. All the perpetrators from my
story were male—several were teenage boys—and they were members of a
ministry that advocated strict sexual mores. Books like I Kissed Dating Goodbye
promote courtship. Modesty is important. Abstinence is too.
Underpinning much of these teachings is a patriarchal understanding of
Christianity, where men are in charge. In a perfect world, those power
dynamics would not be abused, but as Christians teach: We’re not living
in a perfect world.
Inside the Investigation into Child Sexual Abuse at Sovereign Grace Ministries | TIME
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